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Seconds gone
Minutes gone
Hours gone
Days, weeks, months gone
Wow! and years are ticking
Experiences emerging
The good, bad, ugly,
The sweet, sour and bitter
The bright, looming and dark
All making you who you are today

It has made greatness out of some
And it has wrecked some
Some have soared on its wings
While some have drowned
Some head high
While some head buried in their past
What you make out of your experiences 
Is a matter of choice
Yes your choice
Choice to learn from it and move on
Choice to remain in a messy past
Choice to resonate in the euphoria of success achieved
Or choice to build on them for a better tomorrow
It's all about your choice

Life happens every now and then
What you make out of them will make you who you become
Sitting and pacing over spilt milk has never solved a problem
Stop standing at the mountain feet of life without climbing
Stop gazing at the top without moving
Stop lying in defeat
Get back up again
Time is no one's friend
Time waits for no one
It keeps ticking
And it keeps going
Stop the self pity game
Stop the pity party game
Stop the blame game
Life experiences are your building block
So build right with them
Stand up today and move

Choose to start again
Choose to be deliberate
Choose to be intentional
Choose to succeed
Choose to make life count
Choose to win

Strive to standout
Strive to make a difference
Strive to be the best
Strive to smile again
Strive to be an answer to life questions

Let your life count
Do not waste your life experiences
Cherish the good
Let go of the hurtful
Spew the deadly
Celebrate the best
In  all, be happy and let your best flow

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I struggled for too long Being who I wasn’t Fitting  my circle into other people's 
perfect squares -- into all their
expectations for me Their perception was all that mattered What they will see and say Their standard for success and achievement
I showed up acting who I wasn’t Like a dancing monkey under obligations to perform magic To gain their recognition and affirmations for being who I wasn’t Against being Me
I broke the chains and gained freedom the day I stopped looking at myself through other people’s lenses because I discovered people wore lenses tinted and shaded to suit them not Me
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Housed in a container Moved in it Identified by its aesthetics But sometimes lost in it Who exactly am I the container or the content
Sometimes I try so hard to figure exactly what it is about this combo Sometimes complicating other times compelling sometimes conflicting other times cooperating
Influenced by the countless conversations with  the inner and the  outer the seen and the unseen the known and the unknown Then I discover It goes beyond this container there is something about content
As adorned as this container maybe embellished with so much beauty the content remains the substance that give it credibility Beyond the container that interacts is the content that keeps the flow is the content that leaves  memorable impacts
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